The Never Again Moment
Transformation can be more powerful in a searing fire
Sometimes we may wonder why things have to reach such an extreme tipping point before changes occurs. We may agonise over why we couldn't, or didn't make a change earlier, or how we allowed a situation or relationship to continue in such in unsustainable way for so long.
We learn by experience, and sometimes an extreme or very painful experience is required for us to make change, to learn and grow. This is the fire of transformation, sometimes it burns but transformation can be more powerful in a searingly hot fire.
It's what triggers our 'never again moment'. The galvanising of the internal compass & inner resolve and importantly, the raising, often by significant degrees, of our deserving power.
Never again will we allow ourselves to be treated in such a way. Never again will we treat ourself in such a way. Never again will we allow things to progress to this point before speaking up/taking action/removing ourselves. We’ve come to realise, experientially, that we deserve & desire more, or something utterly different. That firm inner resolve will trigger, experiences and relationships of a different nature to occur from this point forward, as a result of our own nature, and the laws of Nature demonstrated in quantum physics which show we are, and exist in, an expectation-driven Universe. Raise the expectation and the result raises also.
Could we have learned this lesson earlier, and taken action more progressively? Certainly, we could have, but there is an axiom that one is always acting in accordance with one’s own state of consciousness. If we could have done better we would have, either individually or collectively. So it is our state of consciousness that must shift, in order for change to occur and it is these costly lessons, scarred by our burns from that scorching fire, that trigger often quite profound change, and raise our deserving power and therefore expectation, at the deepest level.
It is also our nature as humans, that we often tend to need to be pushed to change, that we often need to complete a great deal of personal experiential research into these situations, which can be costly in terms of both time and energy, physically and emotionally, before we are ready to make a shift. And so we find ourselves in the fire.
The important thing is to recognise that fire for what it is - the fire of transformation. Allow the transformation to fully take hold, embrace it and find gratitude for the circumstances or person that triggered that shift for you. Allow that costly lesson to embed itself. Perhaps one day you’ll say it was worth it. Undoubtedly it was needed, or it couldn’t have occurred.
What has been your never again moment, or moments? See to what extent you can detect the cascade of evolution within you that it triggered.
Much love
Georgia x
